 
  K**** F***** wrote:

  I have 4 kids and one (age 7) has agressive/hyper
  issues

[Fred A. Baughman Jr., MD: THIS IS NOT, NEVER HAS BEEN, A DISEASE...NEVER WILL BE]

  .  My husband and I
  say to ourselves all the time, that this child would be a terror if in
  another home.  We give him a lot of tenderness with discipline.

[Fred A. Baughman Jr., MD: THEY ARE ALL DIFFERENT. OURS WERE TOO AND WE HAD A "TERROR" AND WE, TOO, REJECTED PSYCHIATRY'S BOGUS DIAGNOSIS--M.B.D./HYPERACTIVITY. TODAY HE IS A LEADER OF SOCIETY WHO COULD BUY AND SELL THE PSYCHIATRIST'S WHO WOULD HAVE LABELED AND DRUGGED HIM, WHO UNLIKE PSYCHIATRISTS, MAKES AN HONEST LIVING]

  We run a tight ship.

[Fred A. Baughman Jr., MD: CALLED PARENTING JUST AS REJECTING THE FRAUD OF BIOLOGICAL PSYCHIATRY IS CALLED PARENTING]

  He
  is very impulsive.  He is not on any medication and his school (Christian)
  supports us on this

[Fred A. Baughman Jr., MD: AND THEY ARE CALLED EDUCATORS...REAL EDUCATORS. SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT LAST LONG IN PUBLIC EDUCATION WHERE THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO TRULY PARENT, RENDER LITERATE AND EDUCATE]

  .  He teacher told me
  to never put him on anything.  We are blessed with this.  My question is that I
  am seeking information (books, websites) that help me understand how to
  parent this child positively

[Fred A. Baughman Jr., MD: YOU ARE ALMOST THERE USING YOUR COMMON SENSE AND GOING WHERE LOVE TAKES YOU DO NOT TURN IT OVER TO ANYONE AT ANY POINT. YOU MAKE IT SOUND SO SIMPLE AND INEXPERT SAYING "We give him a lot of tenderness with discipline." BUT YOU HAVING FOUND HIM THE RIGHT SCHOOL, YOU ARE PATIENT, CARING LOVING, YOU RECOGNIZE WHAT HE NEEDS AND GIVE IT TO HIM...YOU ARE DOING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS, THERE IS NO EXPERT I COULD OR WOULD DIRECT YOU TO. STAY THE COURSE, ALL OF YOUR CHILDREN WILL REWARD YOU.]